Punishments are a key part of Diaper Discipline and come in three varieties;
- Maintenance punishments which are used to enforce your dominance over them
- Misbehaviour punishments which are unpleasant enough to act as a deterrent
- Rule-breaking punishments which are reserved for partners trying to avoid DD
Below we've listed some of our favourites in each category.
Maintenance Punishments
You should be using at least 1 of these per week even if your partners behaviour is perfect.
Light Smacking
A light smacking session at a diaper change is a simple punishment which can be used regularly.
Once they're diaper has been removed and they've been cleaned up make them roll over onto their front and smack their bum 20-30 times. Your goal here should be to bring them to tears but not all out bawling. Once complete rub their bum gently before turning them back around to secure them in their new diaper.
Forced Messing in your presence
Your partner should already be messing their diaper daily but often they'll do this in private. It can be humiliating for them to change this dynamic by forcing them to do to it while you watch. Two good ways to do this are wake up earlier than usual and slide a suppository into their bum and cuddle them until you feel the back of their diaper fill up, pressing this with your hand and commenting that they're such a baby makes this even better. Alternatively use a suppository in the evening and make them watch an hour long program with you, about halfway through expect to see them lose control.
Thick diapers in Public
If you normally diaper them in thinner diapers for public outing switch this up by making them wear a thick ABDL diaper for a trip away from the house. They'll definitely notice the added bulk as they wet it.
Prevent them asking for checks or changes for a day
If they normally change themselves or can ask for checks/changes remove this privilege for a day. Make sure they fully used their diaper before you change it.
Misbehaviour Punishments
These should be used if your partner has misbehaved such as talking back to you, not completing household tasks or complaining about DD.
Messy Night
Give them a strong dose of oral laxatives around 6pm and place your partner in a thick diaper with plastic pants before bed. You might want to make them sleep in a separate room and locking onesies or plastic pants are a great addition. Sometime in the night they'll heavily use their diaper but don't change them (or let them change) until the morning. Rash cream at this change is recommended as one is likely to have started.
24/7 Diaper Week
If your partner isn't already in diapers 24/7 step it up to this level for a week with toilet privileges removed completely while at home.
Messy in Public
Your partner might already be required to used their diaper fully in public but often they'll manage to avoid this. Take that option away from them by inserting a suppository before you leave the house to do shopping, go for a meal or go to the cinema. Because they'll be spending an extended period in public while messy only do this if you have them on internal deodorants so the general public are not inconvenienced in any way.
Loss of changing privileges
If your partner normally is allowed to ask for a change or change themselves remove these privileges for a week, ideally carry out all the checks and changes yourself but if that's not possible make sure they at least have to ask for permission first.
Chastity for a week
Even if you don't use a chastity device prevent them from having an orgasm for a week. Check their diapers for any signs they've cheated with a rule-breaking punishment as the deterrent.
Crying Baby
During a diaper change, smack them with your hand or a paddle until they're crying uncontrollably.
Rule-breaking Punishments
These are serious punishments reserved for partners who have tried to disobey their DD rules. This might include not wearing a diaper when required, using the toilet without permission or changing themselves when it's prohibited. These are designed to be the deterrent which ensures DD obedience so feel free to read this to your partner.
24/7 DD for a Month
Your partner completely loses their toilet privileges for the next month including when in public. At work and with friends they'll be required to wear and use a pull up.
Baby for a Week
You apply the rules of a baby day for a full week. In short this means 24/7 thick diapers, no toilet, baby clothes at all times at home, all drinks out of a bottle and pacifier usage.
Incontinence Week
You'll remove your partners continence for a week with 24/7 thick diapers but also a laxative regime that means they'll be spending a significant part of their time in a messy diaper. Add a lot of fibre supplements to their diet, make them drink half a bottle of cranberry juice each day and use a strong dose of oral laxatives ever two days. This will cause them to lose control and fill their diaper several times a day. To avoid laxative addiction this punishment should be used rarely and laxative use should be avoided completely the following week.
A permanent increase in their DD rules
Add 5 points of DD rules to their weekly DD. For example this might be the loss of toilet privileges, more babying or removal of their ability to ask for changes.
Preventing DD ending punishments
It's likely you use all the above categories of punishment at some point each year but these punishments are ones you should hopefully never have to employ.
They're optional but recommended if you're forcing your partner into DD and don't want them to be able to get out of it easily. You also need to make sure your partner agrees to these being in place before DD starts so it is consensual.
These punishments should be used if your partner asks to end DD but still wants to continue the relationship. They obviously can end DDby ending the relationship at any time. The goal of these is to act as the deterrent to trying to stop DD and show them that this is now part of their life.
24/7 Diapers
Your partner loses their toilet privileges permanently and will now be wearing diapers for the rest of your relationship. You should throw away their underwear and make changes to your house to support them now being in diapers all the time.
Diaper lover training
You'll start them on a training routine designed to make them love their diapers by only allowing them to orgasm in diapers and creating negative associations when not wearing. This will in time lead them to 24/7 diaper dependance.
Outing them
You'll send a picture or video of them in a full diaper to your close friends.
